A daughter learns from her father what to expect from men: whether her opinions are taken seriously, whether disagreement is safe, whether affection comes with conditions.
Part 01
The lesson
Take her interests seriously even when they are not yours, praise her judgment and effort rather than only her appearance, and keep showing up as she becomes independent.
Reflection
Questions to sit with
- 01What will your children say about you when they are forty?
- 02When did your child last see you admit you were wrong?
- 03Is your family managing your moods?
Put it into practice
Action points
- 01Spend 30 uninterrupted minutes with your child today — no phone, their choice of activity.
- 02Ask your child what they think makes a good father. Listen without correcting the answer.